"We all have a relationship with everything. Obviously the relationship
we have with the people and objects in our immediate vicinity is more
intimate than the rest of the world. For most of us the most common
relationship is possession. In our minds we think we own and possess
things like cars and houses and carpets and golf clubs etc. This
thinking easily spreads into jobs and tasks and positions and perhaps
even other people. "I want you", and "You are mine alone", is the
essence of many romantic film scripts and song lyrics. What we forget is
that this relationship is wrong. It is not possible to possess
anything. Care for..yes. Use...yes. But possess...no. You can't take it
with you when you go, so we say! And yet it's the idea of possession
which lies at the heart of all fear, war and conflict. Can you see it?
Fear of loss, fear of not acquiring what we have already decided is ours
in our minds. So what is a better relationship we can choose which
takes all the fear away. Be a trustee. Everything comes to us in trust,
for us to use and then to set it free. The consciousness of trustee sets
us free of the tension of grasping and guarding. To see ourselves as
trustees of everything that we receive, including our bodies, encourages
our innate capacity to 'care for with dignity'. It is a much more
relaxing way of relating to the things which we are privileged to
receive in life." ~Thought for Today-UK