"We all have a relationship with everything. Obviously the relationship 
we have with the people and objects in our immediate vicinity is more 
intimate than the rest of the world. For most of us the most common 
relationship is possession. In our minds we think we own and possess 
things like cars and houses and carpets and golf clubs etc. This 
thinking easily spreads into jobs and tasks and positions and perhaps 
even other people. "I want you", and "You are mine alone", is the 
essence of many romantic film scripts and song lyrics. What we forget is
 that this relationship is wrong. It is not possible to possess 
anything. Care for..yes. Use...yes. But possess...no. You can't take it 
with you when you go, so we say! And yet it's the idea of possession 
which lies at the heart of all fear, war and conflict. Can you see it? 
Fear of loss, fear of not acquiring what we have already decided is ours
 in our minds. So what is a better relationship we can choose which 
takes all the fear away. Be a trustee. Everything comes to us in trust, 
for us to use and then to set it free. The consciousness of trustee sets
 us free of the tension of grasping and guarding. To see ourselves as 
trustees of everything that we receive, including our bodies, encourages
 our innate capacity to 'care for with dignity'. It is a much more 
relaxing way of relating to the things which we are privileged to 
receive in life." ~Thought for Today-UK
 
